This was one of my deepest wounds, carved into the frame of my life, shaping my earliest memories:
“When I allow someone to teach, guide, support me, or simply see me in my messiest, least-tidied corners – they will no longer see me in my wisdom, power, truth, purpose… my essence. I will be looked down upon, seen as less than and permanently viewed as less capable or intelligent.”
This was the first reality I knew and internalized. Throughout my teenage years and early womanhood, this wound fueled perfectionism, savior complexes, self-abuse, the suppression of my sexual power, eating disorders, body image dysmorphia and warped worth gauges.
Yet, over time I learned that it was not only the wound, but the PATHWAY to reclaiming wholeness in myself and honoring the unique selfhood and power of all beings. It ignited a revolution within me that left nothing untouched.
The alchemy of this wound is the reason I am the woman, coach and guide that I am. It’s the reason I mentor the most wise, powerful leading womxn in the art of alchemizing their deepest wounds and messiness as gateways INTO their wisdom, without ever losing focus on their power, pleasure, safety and ease.
It’s the reason I LIVE and lead by the truths that:
– human messiness, wounds, love and power beyond measure are NEVER mutually exclusive
– actualization of self gets to be easy, ecstatic, energizing and enchanting
– there is no corner of confusion, trauma, shame or rage inside you where your deepest soul’s intelligence and wisdom are not also present
Your deepest embodiment, challenges, power and leadership all stem from the same seed…
If you wish to uncover it, refine it, shine it, trust it and thrive through the core seed of why you are HERE… Apply for 1-on-1 coaching here.
I love you. I see you. I hold you whole-ly and bow to the strength in you that allows you to let yourself be held.